I am a published Author

Wow it has been a long long road woah Three years to be exact. I finally wrote and edited and published my own book. I became an Author of the book titled WaitStress yay! As I pat myself on the back. It was hard work with no support at times from people but I did learn from it. I now know who to share my dreams to and who not to. Never share you dreams to everyone. Make that note to yourself. Some people are just miserable in life and they do not want to see your dreams come true and could care less about you being happy. Do it for yourself! You don't need any ones permission in life to succeed and let the haters hate. I say go for it whatever it is you want to accomplish and set those goals and don't ever quit! Stick-to-it-ive-ness ! My favorite word and definition. Feels so good back to blogging again.

The only way she has published so many books is through stick-to-it-ive-ness

Dubai Chill House Grooves

Publishing is a Dream come true!

It has been a long road for me. Believe in yourself and those dreams come true.

With God all things are possible. He never gave up on me when I gave up on myself. He is the master potter we are nothing but the clay. We give him our worries dough and fears and he washes it all away. Joy always comes in the morning. I wrote this book WaitStress from my heart I am not a cold callous person just a broken one. I researched and discovered behavior is learned. Take responsibility and accountability for your actions. It is a choice to be mean to your Server and people exercise that right everyday. Pathetic and sad but true. It is difficult not to be moved by emotions by other's it is a choice we face. By choosing not to react to bad behavior you will have peace. I have peace.

Yours Truly

WaitStress

WaitSTRESSED

Welcome to my blog =D

Well wait STRESSED out people I indeed am publishing

it is official I signed my life away today and it wasn't

easy when you have no support and have had people laugh

at you but I over came obstacles an wrote a book on what it it is to serve the public ! It was hell writing for four years and everything that has happened to me in this business.

The public will be aware of what it is to serve as I take you threw every kitchen I have ever worked it.

No holds bar either it is raw I tell it like I see it coming to a bookstore near you. LOL

Keep emailing me keep commenting =D

I read them all

Yours Truly

WaitStress

Red White& Theme park blues

This time of year for Barque's time to spend quality time and celebrate our freedom
with food. Grilling out is huge I'm not so certain it is healthy but none the less it brings people together time well spent good times.

Cooking over wood in Restaurant's is a long over due method it is not recent
discovery. I recall working in a fine dining establishment that is all we used is wood. There were no freezer's either. Cooking over wood is all about temps and getting it right for the guest's.

Most people that dine out do not research the restaurant there dining in.
There just hungry. Money doesn't buy you manners either.

This Restaurant was know for celebs to pop in all the time and any given time
so we really were a well known Establishment. My thoughts on working there was what makes this place so great? It was the food not the people in my view.
The people I worked with were rude as hell. The Chef's were arrogant as hell.
This company never hired from outside in always promoted within. This new Chef
to me was not so great his food was regular with expensive spices *yawn* big deal
and you want me to sell it LOL yea yea shure

The bartenders were stressed to the max and rude. I was nothing but a number working here. No camaraderie at all. I've never seen anything like it before in my life.
Well why would we be there to make friends anyway it was a theme park and server crews changed every night. Servers float all over restaurant's within the range of several parks so they were old and bitter in my view just buying time most of them had over twenty years with the company. I am a person with feelings and integrity at a job it is hard for me to adapt to being cold and callous with no thought process and just a number in a factory. So my point is the very theme of this restaurant is not what it really was behind the scene's at all. LOL I was sadly mistaken.

You got to FAKE it to MAKE it. That in itself is a talent people possess.
Working with people who don't feel good to be alive is not what I wanna be around. I knew my time was brief here LOL

I resigned and the manager actually gave me a hard time as if I could not find a happier place to work I'm on the phone thinking THIS DUDE IS A GOOF! I believe
his words were to me "I am abandoning my job" LOL talk about yer guilt trip
those Jedi mind games may work on some but I am adult with my own set of rules.
I almost started LAUGHING at that point of the conversation. I am putting in my notice RETARD which is informing you. Flash cards would have been more appropriate LOL

Who does this??? Obviously he saw good quality's in me I am thankful but seriously I have too work in a place where the environment is somewhat healthy and FUN!!!
Waiting tables should BE FUN! I don't get PAID enough manager DUDE to turn
your bitter crew around but good luck with all that you got going on LOL



Your Truly

WaitStress

Food Inc BARFFFFFFFFF

Greeting Wait people's


Have you watched Food Inc yet? Rent it! Buy it! It is much needed important
information that need to get out to the public. I don't want to talk about to much detail of the
movie I don't wanna wreck it for one's who have not seen it yet.

If you think that our food is safe and the animals we eat are treated
properly and with respect yer wrong, for those of you that think farmers are safe and not bullied and there farms and animals and big corporations haven't taken over wrong again
ugg I did not know the level or degree the power these corporations have.
I eat meat but I can honestly say I am rethinking my choices.
This movie is a real eye opener. Watch and come back and comment =D


Your Truly

WaitStress

KT Tunstall - Suddenly I See (Larger Than Life Version)

Where's WaitStress???

Greetings fellow Wait peoples


I haven't blogged in 4 evah reasons being I took of break from
blogging about grumpy butt guest's who seriously need a SHOT of happy juice!

I was over it as you all well know the Holidays and working in this fine
line of work WE CHOOSE to be in I got BURNT OUT ugg I really
don't know sometimes if it's the guests or my co-workers that are the worst
at getting on my last nerve having said that I've been soul searching I am a
deep thinker always have been and studying people and how they tick
considering I have waited on people for over thirty years in every
Restaurant and Hotel, Resort, Diner show, Coffee shop, Bar, Yuppie,Buffet, you name it.

I look back and think this business really has a way of sucking you in
if YOUR good with people and I am. I really do love to learn from people
if you listen everyone has a story to tell no one listens though sad but true!

eh anyway that is where I've been
Now I am fresh and ready to type LOL keys are on fire!

Waitstaff blessings and Holy water on everyone as we contuine to work in some hellish kitchens in every area of Hospitality place your inn LOL

Love all yer comments
keep um coming


Your Truly

WaitStress

Brie Larson - She Said

Food inc

Greeting all !!!

I havent bloged in awhile and I will blog why soon thank you all for the support
of my writings. I loaded Food inc because it has serious issue's that apply too us all.
The food industry has changed so much threw the generations.
I do work in the food industry as you well know I have worked in Restaurants
for years and years. I posted this to get the information out to the public
"I THINK YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT THESE COMPANYS ARE NOT TELLING US"

post your comments I read them all =D


Peace

Your Truly
Waitstress

Food Inc Part 1 of 10

Michael W. Smith - Cry for Love

Gratitude Attitude

Rule 1.)



In this game of waitressing it is gratitude and attitude. I have found threw years of serving guests come in the Restaurant with an attitude and NO graitiude towards us at times do they FERGET we are here to make a living but if we as servers have one or an off day it is unacceptable. I 'm here to tell you it happens everyday. Customers come in daily to restarunts with attitudes.


Many more rules to come in the future =D


Yours Truly

Waitstress

LAME PEOPLE LEECHS SUCKING THE LIFE OUT OF YOU!! STRAIGHT UP TOXIC

It has been awhile sense my last post hmmm

and what

I have been thinking about is all the TOXIC LEECHS in my life and removing them one at a time and do I feel better and much much happier =D they are gone from my life forever!!!!

It is good to evaluate friendships and so called loved ones that are not necessarily good for you and remove them it is quite healthy and very liberating.

I encourage all of you to do it and begin living again breathing again enjoying life again. This is my life and I intend to live it healthy body soul and mind. =D

Happy New Year everyone here's to our health! 2010 no toxic people!!!

Yours Truly

Waitstress